May 2009

Make Today Your Grand Opening

by Ken on May 27, 2009

openAre you putting the finishing touches on your dreams?  Another coat of paint?  Another can of polish?

Oh, the siren song of perfection.  It calls us all, until we find ourselves drowning in the promise of another day, another month, another year, another life.

But just outside your window, there’s a whole world waiting, and nothing’s going to happen until you let it in.  So why not ditch the padlock and open up the doors?

Make today your grand opening.  Show the world your wares.  Share your poems, your songs, your drawings.

Don’t worry about whether or not they’re good enough.  Just focus on getting better over time as you become new and improved.

Don’t worry about the inventory levels.  You only have one item?   Open the doors anyway.  Then make another and then another and then another.  In time,  you’ll fill the shelves.

Don’t worry about whether or not there’s a market for what you’re making.  If you can’t sell it, then give it away.  If you can’t give it away, then keep it for yourself.  Then make something new.

I know it’s scary.  It scares me too, but it’s so much easier once you cut the ribbon.  All that fretting and worrying teaches you nothing, but experience, the constant trainer,  provides you with an endless stream of lessons and ideas for new projects and new directions.

So, what are we waiting for?  I’ll hit the lights.  You get the doors.

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hotdogYour bookshelf is overflowing with books you haven’t read. Your to-do list is a hundred items long and you’ve only checked off two. There’s so much you want to do, to see, to obtain and the wanting has you overwhelmed.

Somewhere in the back of your mind, you’re frantically trying to find a way to grab it all up in your tight little fists and stuff it into your life.

But life is not a hot dog eating contest. You don’t have to cram it all in. With no time to chew and savor, you’re left with regret and a mean case of indigestion.

One Bite at a Time

Take just one book off your shelf and read it – and enjoy it. Spending an hour with one good book is far better than shopping for three more that will only add to your guilt and collection of things undone. You can buy another book when you’ve finished the one you’re reading.

Draw one picture, just one picture, and take your time. Notice the curves and the angles and the shapes. Get lost in it, swim in it, live in it. Drawing one picture as best you can is better than wishing you could draw a dozen more. When you’re finished, you’ll have something to hold and gaze upon, and you’ll be better than when you began. Then you’ll be ready to draw the next one.

Chew Your “Food”.

Take any of the things you wish to do (It doesn’t matter which one.), and do it, and only it. Let go of all the other things for just this time. They’ll still be there when you’re done. But for now, do this one thing and let it soak your bones.

Multitasking, neuroscientists have repeatedly shown, is a myth. Your brain simply can’t focus on more than one thing at a time. All that switching about shortens the attention span and lessens your ability to enjoy and be at peace with the task at hand.

Let others aim for quantity. Set your sights on quality. Use all your senses and really experience what you’re doing. It will make everything you do afterwards that much richer.

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How to Be Mildly Creative

by Ken on May 1, 2009

creativepeopleHave you ever dreamed of being wildly creative? So have I, but lately I’ve been settling for mildly creative, and you know what? I think the results are better.

Wild Eyed and Hungry

Perhaps you’ve imagined, as I have, churning out ideas at a feverish pace, breaking new ground in unchartered territories of human thought, and producing piles and piles of powerhouse material. You want to be wildly creative like a mad genius high on paint fumes, because you think this is the way to break through the creative blocks that hold you in.

Perhaps you’ve been drawn, as I have, to almost any book or program or piece of software that promised to unleash your creative genius, for anything that offered a chance to spark your neurons, boost your brain power, or free your innovative spirit.

“Yes, yes!” you cried, “Ignite the fires of my imagination!” And then you noticed the people around you beginning to slowly, gently step away.

Yeah, I’ve been there.

My Wild Ideas Lead to Lame Results

I believed that creativity was some sort of manic state I had to whip myself into, and who could really blame me? Various gurus of creativity suggested things like writing at a breakneck speed, drinking gallons of coffee, and whacking myself on the side of the head.

I also thought that creativity, especially creative writing, was something otherworldly and mystical. Over and over I read about the importance of creating a sacred space, whatever that is. Light candles, burn incense, drink some herbal tea, listen to Gregorian chant . . .

But all this advice left me feeling frazzled and largely beneath the task. Sure, I could generate dozens of ideas, but I couldn’t bring myself to work on a single one. I was too keyed up and the whole process seemed too holy.

Into the Mild

Over time, my focus changed. I wanted to know how to cool myself down rather than fire myself up. I wanted to know how to settle down and actually produce something. I wanted to know how to train my mind in order to think and act like someone becoming a writer and, most important of all, to enjoy the process. When I’m able to do these things, I find that I think better, work smarter, and feel infinitely more sane.

Trying to be wildly creative exhausted me and I never accomplished anything. Being mildly creative has the opposite effect.

Aspects of Being Mildly Creative

For me, these are the keys to being mildly creative.

  • You quiet yourself in order to hear what you have to say, rather than shout at yourself to be more creative.
  • You allow yourself to work in small chunks, rather than force yourself to work in large blocks.
  • You focus on asking small, interesting questions, rather than on demanding big, amazing ideas.
  • You develop simple habits, rather than create complicated rituals.
  • You bring the act of creating down to earth rather than place it in some sacred realm.
  • You draw inspiration by living your life, enjoying your friends and family, and taking care of your health rather than by trying to lock yourself away for hours or days on end, starving yourself of human contact, and beating your brain and body into innovation.

Trust me. It works. And here’s a dirty little secret. This is how most of the real geniuses throughout history went about their work. Quietly, slowly, calmly, persistently.

Do these things, and they’ll probably never make a movie about your life as an artistic genius living on the edge of creative insanity. Instead, you may have to settle for being happy, sane, and productive – a mildly creative alternative.

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The Mild Manifesto

May 1, 2009

We, the mildly creative and the mildly productive, are a tender tribe, a calm, cool collaboration of travelers on a creative journey. We lead lives of quiet inspiration and are nourished by our shared imaginations. Before we make money, we seek first to make meaning. Before we attract customers and clients, we seek first to [...]

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