The Power of Two Simple Questions: Why and What If

by Ken on August 27, 2009

curiousboyIt’s easy to get distracted, to look at what everyone else is doing and think to yourself, “Maybe I should be doing that too.” Maybe. Maybe not.

Whatever everyone else is doing, they’re doing it for a reason. It might be the right reason. It might be the wrong one. The real question, however, is why you think you should be imitating them.

Why is a good question to ask from time to time. Why am I buying this five dollar Latte? Why am I checking my email for the seventh time today? Why am I avoiding starting on that painting I’ve been thinking about for the last five weeks?

If you can’t think of a really good reason for doing something, then here’s another good question to ask. What if?

What if you simply stopped doing it? What would happen if you skipped the Latte, left the email for tomorrow, and stopped avoiding that painting that’s been whispering in your ear?

If you don’t have an answer to what if, there’s only one way to find one. Try it.

Conduct a little experiment. Have a little fun with it.

This website came about because one day I asked, “What would happen in a year’s time if I stopped feeling sorry for myself and actually did something like post at least one sentence every day to a blog?” I won’t bore you with the details again, but just know this: good things happened and they’re still happening.

Notice I didn’t say, “I must post a sentence every day.” I simply asked, “What if?” I didn’t puff out my chest and grind my heels. I just got curious.

Curiosity is a powerful thing if you’ll tap into it. It can turn chores into puzzles, obstacles into intriguing mysteries, and fear into the need to know.

Some say please be serious. I say please be curious. It’s a lot more fun than simply doing what everyone else is doing.

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Cecilia Bax August 27, 2009 at 8:31 am

Another great post!

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Diane - Daily Walks August 27, 2009 at 9:07 am

Thank you for the reminder to walk away for a day(s) and let creativity step in. Amazing what one can accomplish in that day and the momentum it builds for the following days.

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Ken Robert August 27, 2009 at 2:58 pm

Thanks, Diane. Remind me to contact you. I’d really like to write about your work. On second thought. That’s my responsibility. I’ll remind myself.

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Daniel Edlen August 27, 2009 at 9:32 am

Great companion post to the delete list one.

Peace.

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Shell August 27, 2009 at 9:37 am

Like that idea Ken, to please be curious.

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Ken Robert August 27, 2009 at 3:01 pm

It’s quietly powerful stuff, Shell.

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Ian August 27, 2009 at 10:31 am

Excellent post, and I agree with Daniel that this is a good companion to the delete post.

You might be interested in this article about multi-tasking published by Standford University News. A study has shown that regular multi-taskers face cognitive impairments in all activities that require concentration. They seem to be unable to delete anything from their perception. I’m not sure if this will let me do HTML, but here’s that study. If it didn’t then here’s the link:

http://news.stanford.edu/news/2009/august24/multitask-research-study-082409.html

Thanks!

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Ken Robert August 27, 2009 at 2:59 pm

Thanks for the link, Ian. That’s pretty much the consensus. Multitasking is really a myth. Your brain can’t focus on two things at once. You have to stop and shift and it’s inefficient. But I still try it from time to time.

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Ben Brooks August 27, 2009 at 12:39 pm

Great post, after reading it I realized that I don’t ask myself ‘What if’ enough. I am going to change that. Thanks.

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Ken Robert August 27, 2009 at 3:00 pm

Thanks, Ben. This post has inspired me to work on another where I list some of my favorite questions and the people who constantly remind others to ask them.

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lucy August 28, 2009 at 4:22 am

I often look at my long list of things I need to do and fight the list.
But, what if I, just for today, ask myself ‘what if…’ every time I find myself not wanting to do something?
Thanks for triggering my curiosity.
The experiment begins!

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oddFrogg August 30, 2009 at 9:31 pm

Two simple questions, huh? Definitely some powerful food for thought which I’ll remember the next time I’m running myself ragged with “to do’s”. Why am I compelled to “busyness” and instead of “doing”, what if I simply don’t?

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Ken September 3, 2009 at 9:16 pm

Funny you should use the word, “busyness”. I’m currently reading Less: How to Accomplish More by Doing Less by (Can you believe it?) Marc Lesser. That’s the word he uses to describe our addiction to constant action.

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Danny September 28, 2009 at 4:24 am

What an inspirational post! This blog is my new favourite blog.

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