Are We Too Busy to Get Better?

Some of us are in need of healing, but we just don’t have the time. So many things seem more important.

We have an 8 AM meeting and a Monday deadline and a reputation to keep. We’re building things, we’re going places, and, by gosh, we’re getting things done.

And yet we can’t help noticing that things have a way of steering off course. The things we build seem crooked, the roads we take run in circles, the things we get done fail to satisfy.

We’re working hard but we’re not sure what we’re getting in return.

But surely, we tell ourselves, things will sort themselves out if we just keep pushing.

Those holes in our hearts will get filled. Those broken pieces of ourselves will mend. And if they don’t, then we’ll just carry on, even if we have to limp, crawl, or drag ourselves.

Sure, maybe we’re messed up, but no one will reward us for time spent repairing. No one will thank us for attending to our needs. No one will be handing us a trophy, paying us a bonus, or giving us a round of applause.

And yet we can’t help wondering. What would happen if we actually fixed what’s broken?

After all, it’s getting harder to pursue our goals while this thing within us keeps rising to the surface. It’s like being a city planner in the middle of a war zone. How can you pave the streets when someone keeps blowing them up?

Maybe we’d actually be more effective if we stopped pushing on and took the time to deal with what we’ve been denying.

Who could we be and what could our life become if we ended that addiction, broke that destructive habit, mended that torn relationship, or left that toxic one behind?

Maybe the goals we pursue would actually have more meaning. Maybe we’d be better equipped to achieve them, not to mention select them.

Could it be? Are we possibly worth our own time and energy?

We’re admittedly suspicious.

Sure. Our everything for our families, our causes, our work, and our art. But something for ourselves? It seems a tad too selfish, a bit too much to ask.

And, oh my goodness, look – another minute’s passed. I should probably end this post.

We’re busy, right? You have somewhere to be. I have something I need to get done.

But, man, I gotta tell ya. It sure does make me wonder.

How ‘bout you?

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